Nice we want to be,safe we find it to be,liked by all, we do all so as to please and not hurt others.
But is nice actually nice?
By being nice we do good to no one,the real issues we hardly address ,the core, the important and in the fear of not spoiling things we spoil them.
We should live not being nice but being fair.
Fair to our friends,family,companion,neighbours,clients,team mates,enemies,country men and all our fellow human beings.
To be fair is to be reasonable ,to seek a win-win situation for both keeping self respect and dignity intact.
To address the issues as and when they arise, to think on the feet.
Being firm,being strong, being aware and being just.